Dr. M. Scott Peck is a world renowned
psychiatrist who focuses his work on reassessing certain human conduct in
social interaction. This article is from his bestselling book, “The Road Less
Travelled” as it appeared in women’s magazine, Self. This excerpt gives a very deep meaning to the readers since
it contains a lot of important information to us. This situation often run
through our mind, ‘Are you a romantic or a libertine’? We tend to ask this
question to our self but did we get the right answer?.
‘LOVE’....
WHAT IS LOVE?
This words can gives different meaning for
each people and often gives the positive views towards us. Ask yourself, what
is the function of this word to you?
Happiness? Laughter? Care?.. is that all?. That is what I think of the words
‘LOVE’, but the truth is not as beautiful as it is. There are so many things
that contains in that words. What I’m trying to say is, love begins with both
side, the positive and the negative. We are too naive if we just think of the
joyfulness of love.
LOVE IS A PARADOX
Love contains the mix feelings of hatred
and resentment or unusual feeling that human beings have at the same time. We
can detect ‘love’ by its symptoms such as jealousy, worry (a feeling of
affection and resentment) and desire to be with the whom you loved.
STRATEGY
Everything in this world needs a very
perfect plan so it will work out. This is what girls really loves, and the
strategies to make them fall for you, I create my own strategy (just for fun):
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Flowers...(girls really love
flowers)..except she’s allergic to them. Make sure you check it.
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Surprise...do something
official that they can bragged about it.
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Care...make sure that you
always updated about her health condition, or she will think that you are not
gentlemen and you never care. At the same time, don not overdo it (it bothers
much).
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The most important thing
is..sincere, you must make sure that she knows that you are sincere. Make her
feel that she is precious to you.
All this while, I’ve been talking about
love. Actually I’m not an expert with this thing since I don’t have a
boyfriend. This article shows me that how people can be in love and what are
their true perceptions towards ‘LOVE’. Make sure that you will never regret and
appreciate and cherish it forever in your heart.
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