FICKLE FRIENDS BY KRISTEN WEIR

“Frenemies”

Further readings...

Research found that the ambivalent relationship can affect your health negatively. When the subjects are communicating with their ambivalent friends, the blood pressure readings were typically higher. In other words, their blood pressure will increase if they meet the person that they dislike but could not avoid from seeing them especially when they belong to the same groups and environment.

From this reading, I can see that the frenemies give a lot of bad effect, but why do people keep them?. As for my opinion, there must be some reason why do they still trying hard to keep this kind of relationship although it is hurt. Maybe they do not want to lose their precious friend or maybe they have another intention. The person who does not want to give up on this relationship must be a very great person because they are able to ignore or hide their own feeling.

My blood type is B, and people said that type B person tend to care only about their own business. They do not care about what happen in their surrounding. Do not misunderstand, because this does not mean that we don’t care about people. We just do not want to interfere with others business. Although most of us have this type of behaviour, we are still a normal person with normal feelings. We also can feel hurt although we tend to smile when conflict occurs because SMILE is the best cure. Frenemies should not exist because every friendship has to begin with a sincere heart. Accept your friend weakness and remember that no one’s perfect in this world.

“COPING WITH FRENEMIES”

If you still want to keep this ambivalent relationship, it’s not a problem anymore because there is a method to get through this easily. Firstly, you must think positive. Second, aware with their weakness that will affect your progress so you can get rid of it later. The best solution is to “start with controlling your own behaviour and being the kind of friend you’d want others to be”-Holt Lunstad.

~having multiple of friends can create a lot of invention to our self and the environment~

A Gift of a Friends~

Sometimes you feel you’ll be fine by yourself,

Cause a dream is a wish when you made all alone,

It’s easy to feel like you don’t need help,

But it’s harder to walk on your own,

You’ll change inside when you realize.

~LET'S CREATE THE MIRACLES TOGETHER~

~leny, tira, fynn, bahirah, fae, shira, alya, julia, julai, ayeen, farra, iqa~ 

<3 lot's of love..